Anonymous asked: I feel like I have a similar relationship with my guy as you do with Matt. Pretty open and just free without any labels (assuming you and Matt are still like that). Anyways he stood me up last night and I'm pretty upset, but at the same time, since we don't have any labels he really wasn't doing anything wrong. Am I right to be upset and should I talk to him about it, or just let it go and look past it?? Especially with Valentine's Day coming up, I don't want there to be any hard feelings.

Well I’m a little unclear about the whole, he stood you up, thing, so I guess it kind of depends. He shouldn’t have stood you up, regardless of whether or not you guys are together. If it was the first time it happened, I don’t think it’s necessary to bring it up. Unless it was like, an important or significant date you had planned. Because it could just be that other things came up and he didn’t mean to upset you. I think a good rule of thumb is if something upsets you, wait a day or two and just think about it before you bring it up that way you can consider all the possibilities and also come up with exactly what you want to say and how you intend on working out the situation.

Sorry I tend to ramble with these kind of responses, I just like to make sure all bases are covered! <3