Anonymous asked: Okay. Thanks, but here's my definition of 'stood me up'. I went to his house as a surprise because I was in the area. I pull up outside&call him, he then proceeds to tell me he's in the middle of an internet game with friends&cannot even come out to say hi& just keeps asking "Why would you come to my house?" To which I reply, "Because I thought you would want to hang...or something." To which he proceeds to tell me that I should go home&he'll call me when he's done with the game. Thoughts now??

Woah, that’s not really a good sign… did you see other cars there? I mean he was definitely there playing video games? Has he acted rude in that way before? I feel like if a guy really liked you, even if he was having some bro time, would be considerate about you stopping by, even if only for a minute. But there’s no need for him to be condescending about that… If you two have plans tomorrow, I think you should go and make the most of it. Then maybe after you see how everything goes, like after dinner or even Wednesday, ask him about it again. Don’t attack or criticize him, just a lowkey, “I was a little hurt by what happened the other day” kind of thing. Again I hope it works out and you two have a wonderful day tomorrow!